給大學同學的一封信談他的喜好 虞和芳 4.9.2020發佈
Dear Paul:
讀了你寫的Watch From Ocean Tower, 892 : A BEAUTIFUL RIDE ON I-35 SOUTH !,看到你的喜悅,看出你的另外的一些愛好,
“the dots of motorcycles I have ridden. I had Honda; I had Yamaha; I had
German Sachs; I had Italian Vespa; I had Suzuki; I had BSA Shooting
Star; I had BSA Thunderbolt; I have Harley Davidson's and I have super
scooter made in China. I have deep respect for Harley Davidson. Harley
Davidson is like a good and reliable friend, somewhat weighty, but on a
windy day it carries the rider steadily forward. Harley has lots of
pride, too. When the Japanese auto business brought Detroit to its
knees, Harley Davidson came up to win back the American lost glory.
Mature, heavy-set and proud Americans started to ride Harley's and
brought the glorious thunders back on American streets. Japanese
motorcycles are great but they have not conquered America!”
看出你健全的身體
”I have had dear
friends who passed away, lost memories and mobility but I was blessed to
make this trip and came home and smile to my wife and I feel blessed ! “
你的不同喜好和開motorcycles運動的喜悅,帶給你年輕和精神充沛。
Good feelings must be shared !
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這裡看出男女愛好的不同,和作為母親和女兒的角色不同。
我對開車,沒有什麼特殊的喜好,也不願意開車,在德國時,200公里以上的路程,我選擇搭乘火車,而不開車。
可是女兒和她男友,他是一位西醫醫生,兩人都上了五十歲,他跟同事合開一所治療癌症病人的醫院。我女兒有兩個自然醫學診所,兩地相差30公里,一處是Marburg城,另一處是Giessen城,此城是她男友跟兩位同學合作的醫院,每天要到的地方,而且工作很忙,輪到他執勤的時候,24小時都要準備病人有急事聯繫。
我年輕在德國的時候,很“前進”,沒有想到女兒比我更前進,她不結婚,不要小孩,除了開車兩頭跑外,有時還跟男友騎快速度的摩托車,在高速公路上飛馳。
她的自由生活的活動,我管不了,可是不能夠不擔心。每當我知道她騎摩托車出遊時,心中都很著急,深怕發生車禍。
你有一位很愛你的妻子,她心裡一定也會著急你的許多帶有危險性的運動,但是她順從你,她對你的嗜好,並不勉強自己去一塊行動。這些運動嗜好,對你來說是樂趣,對她來說,並不見得,於是她讓你獨自去享受樂趣。我想她最大的樂趣就是看到你“came home and smile to my wife and I feel blessed ! “這是夫妻間的愛。
你是一位幸福的人。但是請你也要小心,你的安全影響全家的幸福。 祝福
愉快安好
虞和芳
3.9.2020.
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